Salaams and Good Morning !
Here is your daily dose of Wisdom for Living Your Best Self!
Sometimes we get into a pattern in close relationships when the only time we tell our loved ones how they are impacting our lives is when they are falling short.
While complaining certainly has its place, it is very
helpful to practice giving information about what pleases us as well. We can begin by noticing what our loved ones are already doing right, and how they are impacting our lives in a positive way. And then sharing it with them.
Appreciation, as we have said before, really is the secret sauce of relationships. In fact, the more we appreciate what is already happening in a relationship, the more likely it is that we will see more of it. And the happier we all are, the giver and the recipient of appreciation. It makes all the hard work of relationships worth it.
So, let's practice this formula:I love it when you do x in situation yI love it when you have the food ready when I come home from workI love it when you take care of our toddler so I can sleep in on SaturdaysI love it when you remember to ask me how my big meeting wentI love it when you refill the toilet paper when its emptyI love it when you greet me at the door
ps: I love it when you write to me about about how you are using #DailyWisdom :)
Wishing you a day full of positivity, purpose and peace.
Warm blessings
Marzia
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